篇一：都是溺爱惹的祸
都是“溺爱”惹的祸
爱是阳光，能融化心头的坚冰，爱是清泉，能滋润干涸的心田。但一味无节制的爱，就成了溺爱会把孩子推向成长的(原文来自：wWW.DxF5.com 东 星资源网:关于小学生溺爱的作文)边缘，甚至在成长路上跌得粉身碎骨。
我还是从身边一件小事说起吧，那天从家中出来，值班的门岗告诉我说派出所的民警在校长办公室等你两节课了，我半信半疑的来到办公室，发现手机上六个未接电话，匆忙地跑进校办室。果真两个民警和一个学生家长在那里坐着，当我踏进去的一瞬间，家长迎上去向我解释说：“我是你学生郑涛的家长，孩子犯了点事，请你帮忙，能不能出点证据，能证明我的孩子在这上学不足１２岁，比其他孩子年龄小。。。。。”从他的话中，我似乎明白了点什么，紧接着民警向我解释说：“老师，郑涛是你的学生吗？你有没有他入学的资料，和有关于当年你这班学生年龄的登记表格，能证明这个孩子现在不足１８岁。。。。。”说真的，当时我有点不知所措，他的家长向我使个眼色，并把我拉出去，用几近哀求的语气哭着向我说，胡老师，救救我家孩子吧，如果你能拿出证据证明我孩子当时不到１２岁，我孩子出事就没有１８岁，就不够判刑。。。。。我儿子拦路抢劫，把人家打成重伤了。。。。。。听到这些，六年前的情景历历在目，郑涛是一个非常聪明但极其调皮的孩子，他好动，活泼，爱打闹，不安分，时常把班中搞得鸡犬不宁，因为他把一个女孩鼻子打冒血，我狠狠批评他，并掂着耳朵教育他，为此，家长来到学校给我大吵大闹，并要到教委告我，从那以后我不敢管他了，他也变得更加嚣张，打哭了人家孩子，他家长还来到学校袒护他，我只有安排别的学生少与他来往。就这样，他变的一发不可收拾，今天教育这个，明天制服那个，最后上到初二就退学了，这就是他家长对他的过分无节制的爱，现在，面对执法民警，我真的无言以对，六年了，我真的拿不出任何的资料证明他的年龄。心痛之时，也令我反思很多。
作为家长，我们爱孩子是天经地义的，但我们要把握住一个“度”，不能太过分，我们知道，商纣王爱他的妃子爱得过度，为了博她一笑，把自己忠臣的心挖出来。最终让一个帝王过早地退出了历史舞台，。
所以，警告我们的家长和老师们，适当的爱能促进孩子的成长，但过度的爱，就成了溺爱，会成为孩子成长路上的绊脚石，就像钟表的法条，轻轻拧几下，它会匀速前进，慢慢前行，而过分的猛拧，法条就会断掉，家长们，莫让溺爱之水横流。
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篇二：溺爱不是真正的爱
篇三：don't spoil our children 不要溺爱孩子 英语作文
题目
Don't Spoil our Children
要求
1。孩子的成长关系到祖国的未来。我们该怎样培养祖国的下一代？可以利用实例，如日本、欧美等国家的孩童教育，与中国有何异同，和借鉴
2. 我认为该采取什么样的教育方式对待孩子的成长，为什么？
3.提出自己的建议或总结自己的观点。
It is children that related to the future of countries. Accordingly parents don’t spoil them.
For example, in Japan, parents tell their children that their motherland is really small and they must be strong when they are young. As for Europe or America, parents tell their children must be independent. When they are 18 years old, they must do some part-time jobs to pay for the tuition and cost of living in the flesh. While in china, parents always spoil their children. He only a child becomes the center or even the “emperor” of the family. In order to provide a bright future for the only child, many parents show too much love to them. They do almost everything for their children to keep from any hardship. What’s more, in too many families not only do children come to take their parents’ generosity for granted, but also the effects of this can actually be somewhat harmful to children. In summary, our country should make their children independent like America.
In my opinion, I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others.
Only by a correct pattern of education, can the children be useful in the future. In addition, the key is to be satisfied with gradual improvement, expecting and accepting the occasional slips that come with any change.
In a word, parents should not spoil their children. If parents make it, both of them and their children can be happier for it.